Can't we just do things for ourselves?

All we want do do is live our lives like WE want to. we already lost part of our family because of completely messed up crap (hopefully someone will come around). Now we started something that we are not completely ready to do and we want to take a step back and get a few things fixed first. We may or may not choose to continue it, but that is OUR choice. Isn't that right? That it's our choice? Please stop forcing us. (A blip from my mind, thanks for reading.)Chris's posterous